Why I avoided MLM friends, then ended up joining one?

I used to avoid all my friends the moment they joined network marketing.
This guy join MLM ah? I run far far.
Not because the business was bad.
But because every conversation eventually becomes a pitch.

Everytime I hear, "hey bro, long time no see!" - I already smell it.
Then, "we must catch up soon la" - I thinking how to siam.

This scenario unfolded so many times in my life.
The moment a friend joins MLM...
Suddenly every message had an agenda.
"Bro, how's your job?" Hidden message: Let me tell you why you should quit.
"Wah, long time no see! Coffee?" Hidden message: I need to hit my recruitment target.
"Hey, saw your post about being tired..." Hidden message: Perfect opening for my opportunity pitch.

I started dodging his calls.
Leaving messages on read.
Making excuses.
Eventually, I just... stopped responding.

That experience taught me something critical: The moment you make someone feel hunted, you've already lost.
Not just the sale. The relationship. The trust. Everything.

So when I entered network marketing myself... I swore I'd be different.

Here's what I will NEVER do on social media:
❌ Send "Hey bro! How are you?" messages to people I haven't talked to in years
❌ Comment on your posts just to slide into your DMs with my opportunity
❌ Pretend to care about your life when I'm really scanning for pain points to exploit
❌ Make you feel like our friendship depends on joining my business

Because chasing people doesn't build empires.
It burns bridges. And burned bridges can never be rebuilt the same way.

Here's what I WILL do instead:
✅ Build my luxury brand so compellingly that YOU ask ME about it
✅ Share my RM80k debt journey so transparently that you trust my process
✅ Create content so valuable that strangers screenshot it to save for later
✅ Become so Magnetic that prospects feel like they discovered ME

The difference?
One approach makes people run. The other makes them curious.
One feels like an ambush. The other feels like an invitation.

Think about it:
When you build like BMW, customers come to your showroom.
When you chase like a mall kiosk vendor, friends cross the street to avoid you.

Which one sounds more sustainable?
Which one lets you sleep at night?
Which one builds real wealth without losing your soul?

I'm building The Magnetic way.
Not because it's easier.
It's actually harder to create valuable content daily.
Harder to be vulnerable about my struggles.
Harder to wait for people to come to me.

But it's the only way I can look at myself in the mirror.
The only way I can build without becoming someone I hate.
I don't want to be the reason someone else loses friendships.
I don't want my success built on others' discomfort.

I want to attract, not attack.
Magnetize, not manipulate.
Build bridges, not burn them.

If you're tired of being the hunter...
Tired of friends avoiding you...
Tired of that sick feeling when you're about to pitch...

Follow me. Let's build The Magnetic way together.
Where success doesn't cost relationships.
Where growth doesn't require guilt.
Where your friends actually WANT to hear about your business.

Because you've become someone worth listening to.
Not someone worth avoiding.

Always cheering you on,

Kon

P.S. If I ajak you for coffee, it's really coffee.